Let's be completely direct about this: lobbying is a relationship business. Your network isn't just important—it's literally the foundation of your entire practice. Without relationships, you're just an expensive Google alert service.
You need relationships with legislators, chiefs of staff, committee clerks, agency heads, other lobbyists, industry leaders, and Capitol reporters. The more people who know, trust, and respect you, the more effective—and valuable—you become to clients.
The Relationship Tiers (From Most to Least Valuable)
1. Personal Cell Phone Access
Committee chairs, leadership staff, senior advisors who'll take your call at 9 PM when bills are being amended. This takes 5-10 years to build. Worth its weight in gold.
2. Chief of Staff Direct Lines
The people who control member schedules and advise on vote decisions. If they trust you, they'll make time for your issues.
3. Committee Staff Relationships
Clerks and committee directors who draft bills and manage hearing schedules. These are the most undervalued relationships—and the most useful day-to-day.
4. Policy Advisors & Legislative Directors
The staff who brief members before votes and advise on policy positions. If you're their trusted source on your issue area, you have real influence.
5. General Office Access
What you get without a lobbyist—calling the main office line, getting routed to a junior staffer, waiting for callbacks that may never come. This is what you're upgrading FROM.
How to Build These Relationships
This isn't networking advice from a LinkedIn influencer. This is what works at the Texas Capitol based on watching hundreds of people try—and mostly fail—to build meaningful relationships.
1. Be Physically Present at the Capitol During Session
You cannot build relationships from your laptop in Dallas. During the 140-day session, you need to be IN Austin, AT the Capitol, regularly. Attend hearings (even boring ones). Get coffee at the Capitol Grill. Walk the halls. Be visible and available.
Why this matters: Relationships form through repeated casual interactions, not scheduled meetings. The conversation over coffee before a hearing. The hallway chat after testimony. The elevator ride with a staffer. These micro-interactions build trust over time—but only if you're actually there.
2. Be Helpful BEFORE You Need Help
Share useful information with no ask attached. Connect people who should know each other. Offer research help on issues you know about. Build goodwill over months and years before you ever need a favor.
Real example: When I was a staffer, a lobbyist sent me detailed analysis of similar legislation from other states—completely unprompted, no ask, just "thought this might be useful for your committee work." Five years later when that lobbyist needed a meeting with my boss, I made it happen immediately. That's how relationship banking works.
3. Master the Follow-Up (Most People Fail Here)
Met someone at a reception? Email them within 24 hours with something specific from your conversation. Had a good meeting with a staffer? Send a thank-you note—handwritten if it was particularly valuable. People remember thoughtfulness because it's rare.
The follow-up system: After every meaningful interaction, add the person to your CRM (you DO have a CRM, right?), note what you discussed, and set a reminder to follow up in 2-3 months with something useful. Not an ask. Just value. This is how you stay top-of-mind.
4. Become THE Subject Matter Expert in 2-3 Policy Areas
Don't try to be a generalist when starting out. Pick your areas—education and healthcare, or energy and environment, or tax and budget—and become the person staffers call when they need background on those topics.
How to establish expertise: Write detailed analysis. Speak at industry conferences. Publish thought leadership. Offer to brief new legislators on your issue area. Within 3-5 years of focused effort, you should know more about your policy areas than 90% of Capitol staff. That expertise becomes your calling card.
5. Play the Long Game (10-Year Thinking)
The legislative aide you help today might be a committee chair in 10 years. The reporter you brief might break the story that shapes your issue. The intern you mentor might hire you as their lobbyist when they run an association. Be kind. Build real relationships, not transactional ones.
Why this matters: The Texas political world is smaller than you think. The same people cycle through different roles over decades. Burning someone early in your career can cost you opportunities 15 years later. Conversely, investing in relationships with junior staffers and interns pays compounding dividends as they rise.
The Most Underrated Relationship: Committee Clerks
Everyone wants to build relationships with legislators. Smart lobbyists build relationships with committee clerks. These are the people who manage hearing schedules, organize witness lists, track amendments, and advise chairs on procedure. They're often there for decades while members turn over. A committee clerk who trusts you will give you heads-up on schedule changes, squeeze you into witness lists, and answer procedural questions that save you hours of research. Take clerks to coffee. Learn their names. Send thank-you notes. This is where the real work gets done.